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“He Was an A**hole”: When Dale Earnhardt Jr. Reflected on His Father’s Style of Tough Love With Former DEI Employee Ty Norris

Gowtham Ramalingam
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Dale Earnhardt hugs his son, Dale Earnhardt Jr., in victory lane after winning the International Race of Champions on Feb. 12, 1999 at Daytona International Speedway in Daytona, FL on Friday Feb. 12, 1999.

The father-son relationship between Dale Earnhardt Sr. and Dale Earnhardt Jr. was a tricky one. To say Dale Sr. was a tough dad would probably be an understatement. Ty Norris, one of the earliest executives of Dale Earnhardt Inc., recalled an incident that illustrated the tumultuous dynamic perfectly.

Norris joined Junior on his podcast last December to discuss Dale Sr.’s career and life. The conversation swerved into the incident, which took place many years ago.

Junior, a kid at the time, wasn’t always in the good books of his father. One day, he and his sister Kelley had just arrived at their presidential suite in New York City. When Norris and Dale Sr. walked in after completing a press conference, they saw Junior deep asleep on the couch. This infuriated Dale Sr., who berated his son right in front of Norris.

Earnhardt almost threw Junior off the couch while yelling at him. This had left Norris completely shocked.

“That was the first time I was spending time around the father-son relationship, and I didn’t know you that well. I didn’t know you at all. I was like, ‘Man, that’s harsh’,” recalled Norris.

Junior laughed at his narration of the story and chuckled, “He was an a**hole!” Norris added that he could never be that mean to his children. But for Junior, the angry reaction almost seemed like the norm and something he was expecting from his father.

Mike Davis, who was also part of the conversation, sought a better explanation for the aggression.

“Dad is probably running wide open from thing to thing. Busy, busy, busy,” replied Junior.

“He walks in, and his son is sleeping on the couch in the middle of a presidential suite in New York City. He probably was like, ‘If I’m busting my a**, you’re not going to be sleeping on the couch all day’,” he added.

Norris’ relationship with the Earnhardts

When Dale Sr. launched his own race team, he had his eye on certain capable individuals who were working elsewhere in the racing world. Norris was one of them.

He worked for the RJ Reynolds Tobacco Company before joining ‘the Intimidator’ on the mission to build Dale Earnhardt Inc. He joined as its executive vice president of motorsports in 1996.

Norris played a crucial role in the team’s entry into the Cup Series and helped it win four championships between 1996 and 2004. He left the camp before the 2004 Daytona 500 after major disagreements with Teresa Earnhardt.

Years later, Norris was an integral part of building Trackhouse Racing. He serves as the chief business officer for Kaulig Racing today.

His conversation with Junior on The Dale Jr. Download is lauded as one of the rawest discussions ever recorded for the podcast.

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Gowtham Ramalingam

Gowtham Ramalingam

Gowtham is a NASCAR journalist at The SportsRush. Though his affinity for racing stems from Formula 1, he found himself drawn to NASCAR's unparalleled excitement over the years. As a result he has shared his insights and observations by authoring over 350 articles on the sport. An avid fiction writer, you can find him lost in imaginary worlds when he is not immersed in racing. He hopes to continue savoring the thrill of every lap and race together with his readers for as long as he can.

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